Yes (Wo)Man

Yes (Wo)Man Zooey Deschanel, in pink, with the rest of Munchausen by Proxy in Yes Man The worlds a playground. You know that when you are a kid, but somewhere along the way everyone forgets it. Allison in Yes Man Last week, I finally got to see Yes Man, the romantic comedy starring Jim Carrey.   I remember the hulabaloo around the coaching community when this movie came out, praising it for the message it sent: say Yes to everything! Yes to party invites from the nerdy boss! Yes to mail-order wives! Yes to giving homeless men rides to deserted parks at night! Personal safety aside, I know that the overall message resonated with a lot of people. While Im still someone whos learning how to say No without feeling like Im disappointing the world/being an asshole what I got from the movie is to say Yes to something new: to expand your horizons, meet new people, do something scary. But there was another message in that movie that I havent heard anyone talk about, thats the part that still has me thinking two weeks later: the life that Zooey Deschanels character, Allison, created for herself. Every morning at 6a, Allion heads a running photography group for photographers who want to get more exercise. Then, most nights, she performs as the lead singer of Munchausen by Proxy, whose shows always begin with Allison greeting everyone in the audience by name â€" since the only people that come see the band are people the band knows personally. She then sings (awesome) songs with lyrics like Dont call me past 11pm, it wont happen again. Happened once, it happened twice, it happened three times, maybe four times, maybe five times, maybe, maybe it happened six times, but it wont happen seven times dons at least a half-dozen (but not seven) sparkly, colorful, funnily crazy costumes (do you see the photo above? Theyre chickens, people!). At one point, Jim Carreys character asks Allison why she sings with the band, why she takes her photographs. Isnt she looking for fame? Doesnt she want her band to break through? And I remember her looking at him partly like he was nuts, and partly like he was a child. She explained that she sings with her band because she loves singing, loves performing, loves changing her costume a half dozen times putting on a show for her friends. And even though most of her running club photographs are out of focus, she regales herself as an expert on blurry photography. So do ya think that you can cook your passions into one big pot make a career? Do all of your hobbies need to be money-makers, or is there something that you can do just for the love of it? If you’re missing something in your life, like more exercise, is there a way to do it so that it doesn’t feel like a chore? Think outside the box see where your imagination takes you the more ridiculous the better. Take your inspiration from Allison her songs about late-night booty calls. Or pick up Career Renegades by Jonathan Fields read about people like Ann Rea, an office drone who was determined to leave her depressing job to be a painter but didnt want to give up her lifestyle. Living in the Napa Valley, she looked around, opened her eyes, realized she could partner up with wineries to paint their vineyards, then sell her works in their gift shop. Not only did she get a guaranteed sale for each painting she painted, but it lead to private commissions, large-scale commission work, displays, notecards, wine bottle labels! Obviously, this movie is in Ideal World and we never know how Allison actually, um, puts a roof over her head adorable vintage clothes on her person. But just think about adding a pinch of hobby A and a dash of goal B and a swirl of passion C, and making that into your life. Think of what you love to do, and a need thats out there, make your own sandwich. Allison took everyones goal of getting more exercise paired it with her passion of photography, created a running photography class. She has her nights free for singing performing, just for the love of it. She might be a freakin’ garbage woman during the day, but you’d never know it from the way she lives her life by her passions. Did this article make you think you had deja vu? If so, its because you are super-duper cool subscribe to my newsletter. If not, isnt the peer pressure killing you? I mean, you must reeeeally feel left out by now, reading all these articles a month after theyre written. So combat the feeling of being picked last for the team sign up here.